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Why Am I Mean? How to Stop Putting Expectations on Others

Why Am I Mean? How to Stop Putting Expectations on Others

The voice of perfectionism, also known as the inner critic, is arguably the meanest, most hateful demons in history. I can’t tell you the number of times where its lies have made me cry myself to sleep. The number of days it has stolen seem innumerable. The expectations that perfectionism forces on someone are too much to endure. I remember scoffing at bullied kids on commercials or movies because the immature taunts they endured from their bullies seemed like child’s…

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Don’t judge me: how to stop being judgmental of others

Don’t judge me: how to stop being judgmental of others

Judgment is one of two things, depending on who you are. Judgment, “the process of forming an opinion or evaluation by discerning and comparing” or judgment, “a divine sentence or decision.” When you judge someone, you either make an assumption because you are human, or you make a decision because you are God. Layers Judgment has many different layers, just like we have multiple coats. One layer is just an overall, “oh, you’re different from me and what I know—you…

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